The story is about two friends who grew up together: Amir is son of a wealthy upperclass family, the other is Hassan, the illiterate son of a servant in Amir’s household. We learn there is a class distinction between the rich and the Hazaras, the poor. The Hazarases are to be shunned. But, of course, the two boys could care less about such distinctions. They send a lot of time playing, and Amir reads to Hassan. While they are good friends, Amir teases Hassan for his ignorance.
Assef, the neighborhood bully, can’t understand why Amir is so friendly to Hassan. He beats up on Hassan. We see this attitude much later in life when they become adults, and Assef becomes a leader of the Taliban with his brass knuckles. He continues to be the bully he has always been.
The Taliban overthrows the ruling family and Amir’s family escapes and moves to the United States. Amir graduates from college and becomes a Writer. Amir falls in love with Soraya and asks his father to talk to her father to see if he would give permission for the two to marry. Both families agree. Soraya decides to disclose “her secret” to Amir to see if he still loves her. There is a touching description of his response: “my iftikhar, wasn’t stung at all that she had been with a man…it did not bother me a bit, but I had pondered this quite a lot in the weeks before I asked Baba to go to khastegari. And in the end the question that always came back to me was this: How could I, of all people, chastise someone for their past?”
“Does it bother you enough to change your mind?”
“No, Soraya. Not even close,” I said. “Nothing you said changes anything. I want us to marry.”
She broke into fresh tears.
Amir had his own secret – of his betrayal of Hassan – but kept it all to himself. We learn later that Hassan had died and left an orphan son. There is a family mystery. Why was his father so insistent he watch over Hassan and take care of him? His father, ’seemed to care more for Hassan than to me?’ says Amir, silently to himself. We learn later in life that Hassan was actually a half brother to Amir. Hassan’s mother worked dutifully in their household, and the father was never able to publicly acknowledge his love for Hassan’s mother!
Amir goes back to Afghanistan and searches for Hassan’s son. Finds him. And adopts him.
This is a powerful story of friendship, betrayal, father/son relationships. It gives us a glimpse into Afghanistan culture and the challenges we find today in the war against the Taliban. (5)